Just For You: My Wish for Womankind by Charlene E. Green


Woman, love self like

none can match yours and watch as

they attempt to try

In honor of Women’s History Month, I challenge all women to make history in your own lives by daily committing to your needs to the best of your ability.

How often do you really “do you”? When’s the last time you said no when that’s what you meant; put make-up on—or not—because you wanted to, not to please someone else; dressed or wore your hair the way you prefer, not how your spouse or lover prefers; gave your body the rest it needs; took yourself on your ideal date; did nothing but what you wanted all day, for one day? When’s the last time you asked yourself what you need or want, and thought about providing it for yourself? Have you ever asked?

As queens of sacrifice, particularly mothers, you’re wired to nurture others first; but it’s healthy to seek ways to provide for others in conjunction with nurturing yourself.  Some may take issue with this, possibly people you know and love. When you’ve evolved, only those who are a match to your level of evolution can function properly in your space. The rest will tend to keep their distance because they don’t know how. You’ll receive what you know you’re worth. If people can’t meet the terms of your upgraded mindset, then they’ll either drop completely off, or they’ll only interact with you in ways they feel comfortable. It may hurt, but let it be okay. Maybe they’ll catch up one day, maybe not. In the meantime, you’ve made room for the kinds of visitors that’ll go out of their way to match your requirements. You deserve that.

I lovingly challenge you to make it your daily goal to give yourself as much of what you need for your peace of mind as possible; all things such as children, family, and jobs considered, where some level of compromise may be necessary. The mere commitment to consider your needs daily is the shift of energy needed to make way for your fulfillment. Every effort to “get yours” counts. If you’re never or hardly ever attempting to live your ideal life, then you’ll always be waiting for others to provide love, attentiveness, and approval for you.

Life isn’t meant to be a waiting game. Wait for no one to love you properly. Figure out how to love yourself the way you want, on your time, your terms. You’ll be amazed at how people will be willing to match the respect you have for yourself. You’ll be so content with what you give yourself that you won’t have time for or interest in worrying about who else is or isn’t on board with loving you right.

Ladies, I challenge you to find the courage to live just for you, whenever possible. Then, I dare you to feel great about yourselves and love the subsequent results.


Charlene E. Green (aka Hustle Diva) is a novelist and self-published author, spoken-word artist, editor and literary consultant, and motivational speaker from Los Angeles by way of her hometown of the Bay Area. Through her various written and spoken works, her goal is to help people build the strong self-esteem needed to pursue their best interest at all times, and to inspire their self-revelation that will lead to internal transformation. Currently, her main focus is her spiritual work, where she provides Life Challenge and Life Mission Consulting, and Poetic Breakdown, a spiritually themed poetry workshop. If you’re struggling to find the courage to advance in your life, then Charlene would be more than happy to help you find it. Please visit www.honorthespirit.com for full details about her services in this realm.

For information about Charlene’s additional work, please visit www.hustledivaspeaks.com

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