Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.
Somewhere in this road of life, I picked up the notion that everyday I would be presented with problems and my day would be based on “how I handled it.” So every morning I expected some type of grief. It was an anticipation I would stir into my coffee and sometime initiate on the drive to work. Or maybe I waited to start the “problem” while standing in line for the elevator at work. Or maybe I waited until lunch and picked the longest line to get in so I could mean mug the cashier when I got to the front and make her my daily “problem”. This theory could’ve been passed on to me during school problem solving, conflict/resolution discussions from the bible during Sunday school or my mother. But I inherently did not grow up thinking life would be beautifully handed to me everyday.
Changing this behavior has to be part of my everyday routine now. I have to consciously remind myself that I deserve goodness and the universe will align with my mentality daily. I have to remind myself:
You don’t get what you want, you get what you expect.
Change your expectations today! Accept and expect greatness! Have an amazing day!